What Is Perfectionism?
Perfectionism is:
A striving for flawlessness — setting excessively high standards for oneself or others.
Sunday school children are often pushed to aim for the highest grades. The lie that children with high marks in Sunday school are the best students, will become the best believers, or are fit for ministry is commonplace in churches. Some parents boast about their children receiving good marks in Sunday school and becoming teachers — but a child as a teacher? How is that good for any church? The tendency to equate self-worth with achievement or performance becomes the norm.
Being overly critical of perceived shortcomings
Not wearing white, not coming to church on time, or missing five chapters of daily reading are treated as greater shortcomings than failing to walk in love and forgiveness.
A strong fear of failure
Among perfectionists, failing is seen as a terrible outcome. Those who stumble in their faith are ignored and isolated. Students who fail their exams are made to feel terrible about themselves.
A need for control
Implicit obedience is expected from junior saints. Never question — even if a senior saint is wrong. Simply do as you are told.
We are in the last days. Many kinds of spirits are working against the children of God. Learning to stay rooted and grounded in the Word keeps us humble and aware.
Overcome false perfection. Look to Jesus, who finished the work of perfection on the cross. True perfection is holding onto Jesus and living gratefully each day for His perfect work of love in our lives.
Maranatha, Praise God, and Amen.
